Sexual therapy and sexual counseling for couples and individuals Cologne
Sexual counseling is not only for couples, but also for individuals. It will help you to improve your
To harmonize sexuality with your desires and desires.
In addition to the treatment of sexual disorders, sexual therapy for relationships is also helpful to increase the quality of your love relationship and, if necessary, to enable sexual development as a couple.
Thus, the clarification of sexual orientation and identity as well as lust and eroticism in old age represent further
topics of the couple counselling.
Paarberatung in Cologne: What is a sexual problem?
Couples therapy shows that sexual problems are manifold, can occur in every phase of life and affect both women and men. The most common complaint is listlessness. This can be a direct consequence of couple conflicts. And everyday stresses for the couple, such as stress at work, negative sexual experiences or pressure from too high expectations of sexuality can also cause listlessness.
There are many reasons for sexual problems: among others, physiological and psychological changes, for example after operations or pregnancies, can have an influence on the sexual life.
In addition, the needs and preferences of partners can change over time, which can lead to conflicts.
How does sexual therapy help?
Both the couple counseling and the sexual therapy in Cologne help to overcome acute crises and the frequent speechlessness. Paarberatung Köln helps couples to resume communication with each other in an open and appreciative atmosphere and to talk about their own sexual desires and ideas. This is often the first and most important step for the couple towards a fulfilling love life. As a rule, the first positive developments can already be seen after the first conversation. In everyday life it is important to stabilize progress and to approach further changes carefully.
Sexual disorders have a direct impact on the couple’s relationship. This creates a dense network of interactions that can reinforce each other and need to be put in order again in sexual therapy.
In order to work on the cause of the sexual problem, it is first of all important to understand that sexuality is more than the mere functioning of the organs. A disorder can be caused by tension on different levels. Therefore the following areas are the subject of sexual therapy:
How you deal with stress
Your sexual development history
Your thoughts on sexuality
Sexual Therapy Cologne supports you in exploring the possibilities of eroticism that is full of relish for you. Beyond reproach and blame, you will develop a deeper understanding of your sexual needs and desires. The goal is to develop your own sexual personality on the one hand and to discover lustful similarities with your partner at the same time.
Use the opportunities of a sexual counseling to find a fulfilled sexuality in your relationship. In our joint practice for psychotherapy you will find clarity through professional counseling.
Sexuality is certainly often still a shameful topic that is often avoided. Although sexuality problems are very common in partnerships, either individually or as a side effect of other problems.
Of course, you as a client always decide for yourself on the topics you want to work on. If there are problems in sexuality, it is always good to discuss them openly. More often than not, they are less complicated than one usually thinks. We encourage couples to talk about them openly and help clients in couple therapies to get to know themselves better in their sexuality and thus to contribute to greater satisfaction from the relationship.
The better you know your own physical needs, the better you can talk about them with your partner, the more likely you are to have a satisfying sexual relationship.
Often sexual problems are not purely physical problems, they are emotional problems that have a lot to do with your thoughts and feelings. Read more about this topic.