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Family Therapy

Therapy for Parents and Children

Strengthen the relationship with your child and create a harmonious coexistence. Our family therapy helps parents and children strengthen or rebuild their trust, resolve conflicts, communicate better, and grow together.

Support for a harmonious family life

The relationship between parents and children is one of the deepest but also most challenging connections in life. Misunderstandings, conflicts, or stressful situations can strain family interactions and lead to frustration on both sides. Therapeutic support can help manage these challenges and strengthen the relationship between parents and children.

At Paarberatung Odendahl & Brinkmann, we offer specialized therapy approaches tailored to the individual needs of parents and children. The goal is to improve communication patterns, promote mutual understanding, and find solutions for stressful situations by learning concrete strategies that you can then apply effectively at home.

Do you have questions about

Family Therapy?

If you have any questions, feel free to call us or send us an email. We will be happy to advise you in a free initial consultation.

When can therapy for parents and children be beneficial?

  • Constant conflict over parenting issues and rules: When parents feel overwhelmed or their child does not respond to their rules and boundaries. Often, parents also have different ideas about upbringing. The child feels torn and takes advantage of the disagreement, for example: “But at mom’s, I’m allowed to…”.

  • Double burden on parents from work and family: When both parents have to work, it can sometimes be difficult to devote enough time and patience to the child, causing them to feel neglected. This ultimately has a negative impact on the entire family, as the strain continues to increase for both parents and the child.

  • School or social problems: Support with difficulties such as bullying, learning challenges, performance pressure, or social withdrawal.

  • Sibling jealousy: When a child feels disadvantaged because the sibling seemingly receives more attention. Signs of this can include defiance, tantrums, or withdrawal.

  • Changes during puberty: Often, the child becomes increasingly distant, spends little time with the family, or does not adhere to agreements. Parents often feel powerless and do not know how to reach their child.

  • A new partner after separation or divorce: When the child rejects a parent’s new partner or feels torn between both parents.
  • Changed family structure: For example, due to illness or a caregiving situation, when a parent requires care and the family must take on new roles. Children can often feel neglected, and parents overwhelmed.

  • Loss of a family member: A death or a separation affects the entire family. Some find it easier to talk about it, while others internalize the pain. Children in particular often do not know how to cope with the loss and at the same time do not want to be a burden to their parents.

  • Everyday challenges: When stress, overwhelm, or family crises strain family interactions.

Make use of the safe space of

Family Therapy

Whether it’s about coping with crises, clarifying parenting questions, or strengthening family bonds – we support families in overcoming challenges and creating a happy and fulfilling future together. Whether you need help with communication, managing conflicts, or reinforcing your family connections – we are here to assist your family on the path to a harmonious and loving relationship. Schedule a free, non-binding initial consultation now.

Our therapeutic approach

In our work, we place special emphasis on a respectful atmosphere in which both parents and children can feel understood and comfortable. We create a safe space where all family members can openly discuss their feelings, wishes, and concerns without feeling judged. It is important to us to understand the different perspectives of everyone involved and to promote respectful communication.

By applying proven methods from systemic therapy, we help families discover and utilize their own strengths. We work together on solutions that both strengthen relationships and develop sustainable, solution-oriented strategies. Our goal is to improve family communication, build trust, and foster emotional bonds. We support you in recognizing old patterns and finding new ways that harmonize and strengthen family life.

Tailored to your individual needs, we offer sustainable support that not only focuses on short-term solutions but also enables long-term positive changes in everyday family life.

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What can you expect?

  • A trusting and safe environment for conversations.
  • Practical strategies, exercises, and tools that you can also apply in everyday life.
  • Individual support tailored to your family situation.
Therapy for Patchwork-Families

New family constellations bring opportunities as well as challenges. Our family therapy supports you in promoting cohesion and a harmonious coexistence.

Therapy for multiple generations

Different values and expectations can trigger conflicts in families. We help build bridges between generations and strengthen mutual understanding.

Our Family Therapists

Competent, empathetic, and experienced – our family therapists guide you and your family on the path to greater understanding, cohesion, and inner strength.

Dipl. Social Worker
Michaela Etscheid-Garnitz

M.A. Social Pedagogue
Lara Wieczorek

FAQs

What happens when our children enter puberty and we experience communication difficulties?

Puberty is a challenging phase for both parents and children. Family therapy provides a safe space to break down communication barriers and find ways to better handle the conflicts and emotional challenges of adolescence. The goal is to strengthen trust and the relationship between parents and teenagers and to prevent growing emotional distance.

How does family therapy help in coping with separation or divorce within the family?

Family therapy supports families during transitional periods such as separation or divorce by helping to understand and mitigate the impact on all family members. Support for children is especially important, as they often struggle to cope with the changed family situation. Therapy promotes communication and helps establish a new, healthy family structure.

Does everyone in my family have to attend therapy?

Ideally, all important family members should participate, as intergenerational family therapy takes into account the dynamics between the different generations. In some cases, however, it may be appropriate for not all family members to be present at the same time, especially if there are conflicts that need to be addressed only between certain individuals. The therapist will discuss this in advance with the family.

Can grandparents also participate in family therapy?

Yes, grandparents can also be involved in family therapy, as we work across generations with all family members.

Can we do family therapy if we live together as a patchwork family?

Yes, family therapy can be especially helpful for patchwork families to clarify the often complex relationships and dynamics. It helps resolve conflicts, foster connections with all family members, and create a harmonious family structure where everyone, both parents and children, feels safe and respected.

What can be done if the children are struggling to adjust to the new family structure?

In families with new partnerships or transitions, such as remarriage, family therapy can help children feel secure and accept their new role. The therapy provides strategies to develop new relationships within the family and promote emotional stability.

What if my partner and I have different ideas about parenting?

Different parenting views can lead to conflicts. In family therapy, these differences can be openly discussed, and shared parenting goals can be developed. The therapy helps promote respectful communication and find compromises that are beneficial for both partners and the child.

What if we only want to work on our marriage?

We also offer marriage counseling if you only need support in your marriage and the family relationship with your children is generally functioning well.

What times are family therapy sessions available?

Appointments can be scheduled in the mornings, afternoons, and evenings, as well as on weekends.

How much does family therapy cost?

  • Initial consultation: €190 for 90 minutes (excluding VAT)
  • All subsequent follow-up sessions: €220 for 90 minutes (excluding VAT)

The duration of family therapy depends on the individual case – fruitful results can become apparent after just a few sessions. Based on experience, most families require 6 to 8 sessions.

Book your family therapy appointment now

Take the first step toward a more harmonious family life. Conveniently book an appointment online or by phone and receive personalized guidance from our experienced therapists. We look forward to supporting you on your path to greater understanding and cohesion.